Author: Kyle Jetsel

  • D.W.D.?

    I almost got stopped for a D.W.D. And it could have cost me A LOT to get out of “PURPOSE PRISON.” As I dropped Ricky off this morning and was driving home something didn’t feel right. You know, because typically every morning, I jump out of bed ready to conquer, fired up for the day,…

  • I’d be ticked

    “How do you do it? What’s happened to you isn’t fair. I’d be ticked-off.” Recently I came across an old friend I hadn’t seen since Shelly’s passing as I shopped at Wal-Mart. As I saw him (and he saw me) he looked at me and quickly headed straight towards me. “How you doing?” “I’m doing…

  • Shelly’s with him… and me.

    Recently, one of my kids made a decision that caused him to have to face some harsh consequences. The kind of consequences that can be… well, heart-wrenching. But… at the same time, allow him to learn valuable lessons about how the world works. I was not surprised. I could foresee the consequences were a possibility…

  • Just work

    As I have faced a very stressful challenge I have been bolstered by following the advice of this quote: “Work is honorable. Work is good therapy for most problems. Work is the antidote for worry. Work is the equalizer for deficiency of native endowment. Work makes it possible for the average to approach genius. What…

  • Crippling anxiety? Me?

    I just couldn’t listen… until… I’m not very musical. I’d LIKE to think I can sing if I have to. I mean, I can carry a tune. But instruments? Nope. Not even a chance. At one point when I was 23, I tried taking piano lessons. But after a few lessons (2) my instructor said,…

  • Lead how?

    I try and do it in MY family… but I never imagined it would be done to me. A few years ago I got a call from a friend… who “called me out” on a mistake I had made. A serious mistake in judgement that needed to be addressed. Now, I’m no pushover. I’m a…

  • NOT a problem

    “You don’t have a problem… you have OPTIONS!” That’s what my Mom said when I went to her with a “serious” life decision. I was 16, and just ready to start dating, but I had, what I thought, was a real problem. Theresa and Sydney, both beautiful, both sweet, both seemingly interested in me. What…

  • Birthday pain

    A few days ago was my 59th Birthday… and THIS happened. I was out of town. 1,877 miles from home. Away from my family. As I woke up in a quiet, empty hotel room I knew it was my Birthday. But I had planned for this. I knew I’d be alone. I knew I’d feel…

  • Sweet, tiny Angels

    From the mouths of tiny, sweet Angels. A few years after the passing of my wife Shelly I found myself in Church walking down a hall towards a class I was going to attend. For some reason that day I was broken. Even years after Her passing I sometimes feel shocked that She is gone.…

  • A confession

    I have a confession to make. I’m a man. Which means I’m supposed to be the strong one, the one that is the rock, the one that others can turn to if they need “lifting up.” And I like to think I do a fairly good job of motivating and encouraging others when they need…